My SIL Suddenly Wants My Daughter at the Party?! 😳🎉

Ever since I got pregnant, my relationship with my brother and sister-in-law has been on thin ice. We used to be close, but now it feels like every interaction is a minefield. My SIL barely acknowledges my daughter, yet suddenly she invites her to her son's birthday party. Is this a peace offering or just for show? When I see them at my parents' house, their boys are friendly to me, but my SIL and brother act like I'm invisible. My mom says it's because of SIL's mental health and my brother's anger issues, but it feels like I'm always the one expected to keep the peace. Now, my partner wants nothing to do with them after they ignored our daughter one too many times. He doesn't even want us to go to the party, but if I don't, I risk being the villain in my parents' eyes. I'm torn between wanting a relationship with my nephews and protecting my own little family. Have you ever felt stuck in the middle of family drama, not knowing which way to turn? I could really use some advice from anyone who's been there. 💔🤷‍♀️ #FamilyDrama #SisterInLawProblems #ParentingStruggles #FamilyRelationships