Refusing to lend 40,000 yuan, losing a good friend

My friend asked me to borrow $40,000 last Saturday, but I didn't lend it to him. I suggested that he go out to work and earn money. He ignored me for the next few days. I just called him to ask for clarification. The other party was cold and said that he asked me for help when he was in the most difficult time. He thought we were so familiar with each other, and I understood him and believed him. He said that if he borrowed from his brothers, he would definitely get it, but he didn't want to ask because his brothers were married and had families. He said that because of what happened, he would not chat with me like before. There was nothing to talk about. To be honest, it was very sad. We went through a lot together, but in the end, it was all about money. I hope everyone will not encounter this~ #LendMoney #Experience #GoodFriend