“They Never Meant To”

Sometimes the closure you’re looking for …isn’t coming. They won’t admit what they did. They won’t say sorry. They won’t even acknowledge how deeply they hurt you. Not because you’re not worth it— but because they’re not capable. You wanted an explanation. A reason. A moment of honesty. But what you got instead was silence, avoidance, gaslighting… or worse — fake peace. You sit with questions they’ll never answer. Replaying what you could’ve said, how you should’ve acted, what you missed. But the truth is: you were never the problem. You were just the one who kept showing up with a heart wide open in a world that didn’t know how to hold it. They hurt you because they were careless. Because they were unhealed. Because it was easier to ghost than to grow. And now it’s your job— unfair as it feels— to give yourself the closure they never could. No long text. No dramatic send-off. Just a quiet truth: You deserved better. You still do. ⸻ #healingseason #selfrespect #unspokenpain #movingforward #letthatsinkin #growthmindset #emotionalgrowth #toxicfree #truthhurtsbutheals