When Former Students Visit Too Often: Is It Gratitude or Crossing the Line?
Imagine this: You’re a teacher who once helped a struggling student make it through the toughest years of high school. That student is now in college, but they keep coming back to visit you—10 to 15 times in just one year! At first, it feels heartwarming. You’re proud, you’re touched. But after a while, you start to wonder: Is this student showing gratitude, or are they crossing a line?
Let’s be honest—teachers are busy people. They have their own lives, families, and maybe even want some peace and quiet after work. But what if a former student keeps showing up, asking for your time and attention? Is it rude to tell them to visit less often? Or is it your duty as a mentor to always welcome them?
Some people say, “It’s great to keep in touch!” Others whisper, “It’s getting a little weird.” Where’s the line between appreciation and intrusion? Have you ever had someone in your life who just didn’t know when to stop? Or maybe you were the one who kept reaching out, not realizing you were making someone uncomfortable?
Let’s hear your stories! Should teachers set boundaries, or should they always keep the door open for former students? Share your thoughts below—don’t hold back!
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