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justme

When people are in a bad relationship, do they stay because they truly love that person or because they don’t know how to get out? Be careful about getting into a relationship because it’s so much easier to get into a relationship to get out sometime.. you really never know a person like you may think you do. Background checks never hurt before you get into a relationship and when you have kids to consider whether or not you go ahead with a relationship at least listen to them. Make sure you know the pros and cons ,love can make a person stupid. Try to be smart. Try to know what you are getting into . Some people seem really sweet but have a agendas or silently change . Sometimes the sweetest people are the ones you might not can trust.Remember the Trojan horse was a gift. Especially be careful when you put your finances together and lose your financial independence. And be careful with your kids. Because it’s their life to that will be changed.

justme

When my brother passed away, I was sent a text message to go home not to stay the night. I didn’t read the message until the next morning. No one else was staying the night, it would not have mattered  if I had read the message earlier, I see today was my brother .but as I think back to the moment, I know how Mary felt ,she stayed .for me it caused hurt feelings, anger, family issues with that part of my family, and it was during the loss of the last of all my family yeah everyone grieves differently I could not have left him by his self. I stayed and played music. That means something to for him, I have to sand all night leave my head on in his bed to close my eyes , whispered I love you and say goodbye ,ignoring his wife and his daughter wishes as I was told for him to get his rest for his eternal rest, but I didn’t read the text message that night. I read it the next morning and I would have stayed regardless. I would not leave my brother on his last night of living alone. and I think back about Mary and how she must have received the same response to her , but she stayed and I stayed , it was what my heart told me to do and I’m sure it’s what her heart told her to do.

PoeEtiq

When Did We Stop Looking Out for One Another? Sometimes the biggest problems in a community don't begin with hatred. They begin with silence. We see something. We sense something. We know something isn't right. But too often we convince ourselves that it isn't our responsibility. Children need people who will listen. Seniors need people who will notice. Families need support before they reach the breaking point. And communities need more than people who simply live next to one another. We need people willing to care about what happens to one another. Change doesn't always begin with a law, organization, politician, or program. Sometimes change begins when one person decides, “I refuse to keep looking the other way.” Maybe rebuilding the village starts there. What is one thing you believe we have lost as a community that we desperately need to bring back? — PoeEtiq™ — The Street Prophet Hip-Hop National Media

Penny Stanton

It has been two months since the love of my life went to his heavenly home. I know that he is and peace, with no worries! But after 60 plus years with this beautiful, compassionate, sensitive, passionate and so many more adjectives that I will run out of room, my heart is still so sad because he is no longer here with me to share our life on earth. I also know that I will never get over the loss but I know that I have to continue to live. It is what he would want, I have had to learn how to breathe on my own, walk without him beside me and sleep, when possible, by myself. I pray every night and thank God for all of the most wonderful years any woman could possibly have had. He created a place in my heart that will never be filled again until the day I leave this earth and meet him at the gates of heaven. When I meet him again it will be for eternity. Until then everyday will be a day filled with love in my heart! I love you my darling. I know you are watching over me everyday. Until we meet again my love take this with you. You are the man that God sent to me to teach me about love and how to share it. Our memories will keep me refreshed and able to move on. I will enjoy our beautiful children and grandchildren for you. Be at peace and know you are loved more then words can ever say! Your wife, friend, companion and lover! Penny💖

Appalachian Mama News

For seven years, her identity was entirely consumed by the routine of packing lunches, balancing two jobs, paying bills, and being the anchor for a quiet home. Somewhere between the late night laundry cycles and early morning commutes, the person she used to be simply faded away. She wasn't angry about it because she loved her son fiercely but if you asked her what she enjoyed, what her dreams were, or what made her laugh, she genuinely wouldn't have known how to answer. She was running on pure momentum, completely invisible to herself. The shift didn't happen with a dramatic breakdown, but on an ordinary Tuesday in a crowded laundromat. A sudden storm trapped everyone inside, and as she sat staring blankly at a spinning dryer, a woman near the window noticed her quiet exhaustion and offered to share a warm thermos of tea. That small gesture turned into a conversation, which turned into a weekly routine. Her new friend didn't need her to be a superhero, a provider, or a rock. She was just someone who listened without judgment and offered an easy, uncomplicated warmth. For the first time in years, the mom had a safe space to vent about her fears, laugh at absurdities, and sit in comfortable silence without having to manage anyone else's needs. Her friend didn't fix her life or solve her financial struggles, but she offered something far more valuable….a mirror. Through their quiet afternoons, shared coffee cups, and late-night texts, the mom slowly began to remember who she was underneath the stress. Having a peaceful anchor allowed her to stop just surviving her days and finally start living them again. This story is by the best friend.

Marriage 4 Life Institute

MARRIAGE MOMENT: KEEP BUILDING STRONG! 🙏🏽 To all the strong marriages out there-KEEP GOING!!! A strong marriage doesn’t mean you never face challenges. It means you’ve made a decision to keep choosing love, commitment, forgiveness, communication, and one another through every season. Keep praying together. 🙏🏽 Keep dating each other. ❤️ Keep laughing together.😀 Keep communicating—even when it’s difficult. Keep protecting your covenant.🥰 And most importantly, keep God at the center of your marriage.😇 👉🏽Strong marriages are built in the everyday moments—the morning conversations, the unexpected hugs, the prayers, the forgiveness, the date nights, and the simple decision to say, “I still choose you.” “A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” — Ecclesiastes 4:12 Marriage is worth nurturing. Marriage is worth protecting. And marriage is worth fighting for—not fighting against each other. Marriage 4 Life Institute Building Strong Marriages. Strengthening Families. Leaving Legacies. #MarriageMoment #StrongMarriages #BlackMarriage #blackmarriagemovement #marriage4lifeinstitute