is my husband married to me or his bike now?

My husband used to be my adventure buddy, but now it’s just him, his bike, and his cycling crew. He rides for hours, spends a ton on gear, and turns down every chill plan I suggest. I started biking too, but he won’t meet me halfway—no movies, no quiet walks, just more cardio. I’m worried we’re drifting. What happens if we have kids and he’s still pedaling away? Anyone else dealing with a relationship that’s third-wheeling a hobby? #relationshiptalk #cyclingwidow #marriedlife