She Flirted at Our Party, Now I'm Torn

Trust your gut

Don’t forget my man if you got the girl everyone wants remember she’s still the girl everyone wants. As long as she’s coming home with you at the end of the day let her have fun and trust in each other’s love and your confidence in having the girl everyone wants. If you feel a little jealous and that’s OK just walk over give her a little kiss whisper in her ear. You love her walk away and grab a drink. It’s ok to let your girl feel beautiful

She could just be a natural flirt. I was all my life. Never a problem with my husband of 23 years. Fun flirt cause men are fun. The deal is never flirt sexual or as a come on. Totally different. My husband knew men and women liked to talk to me cause I was fun and good looking. He knew he was going home with me. 2 kinds of men. Jealous and not jealous. My husband never was jealous because he knew I loved him and only him. So what kind of flirt is she? I could never be with a jealous man. Abusive men are all the jealous type. Think about this.

Trust your instincts.

From experience: When a woman says flirting is just harmless fun or "it is just the way I am" Run, don't walk, very fast and far away.

if you feel her well enough to know difference between a conversation and something further, and she's not being straight up, leave. I'm telling you it not worth it. better to be safe than sorry when talking about sharing your life with someone. you let this ride and Chad will be in your bed one day and by the time you find out you'll be wondering if that kid you've raising is yours or his. and when you confront her she'll just leave anyway and still get half of you're married. not worth it.

My wife is a true extrovert, and anyone's instant sweet best friend. But after being together for nearly forty years, I know that she's just being herself.

I experienced a similar situation with my then-fiance with her coworker during our housewarming party, and I could sense something was off. What you're going through is valid, and you are not overreacting; it does feel different for a reason. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. She claims it’s harmless, but you need to express that it's not—it's hurtful. Flirting often leads to complications, and she shouldn't be engaging in it.You didn't mention how long you’ve been together, but from my own experience, I suggest cutting your losses and finding someone who truly values and respects you, someone who wants to be with you and not flirt with others. Flirting inevitably results in someone getting hurt, and there's no need for that. Respect yourself. This time, you caught her in the act. Just think about how many times this might have happened before. If she views flirting as harmless, how would she interpret something like cuddling or long hugs? Best of luck to you.

Dump her. It’s only going to get worse. She probably already hooked up with him.

always trust your gut.