Is it love if consent is missing?

I [29F] recently discovered that my partner [31M] has been making decisions for us both without consulting me, from finances to major life choices. It feels like my voice doesn’t matter. Is this a sign of care or control? How do we rebuild trust when communication breaks down, and is it possible to re-establish boundaries? Looking for advice on healthy relationship dynamics and how to #BreakTheSilence. What are your experiences with addressing consent and control in relationships? #ConsentMatters #HealthyBoundaries #RelationshipTalk