Unexpected HOA Drama!

OMG, y'all won't believe the mess I'm in. So, I finally bought a place in this nice 55+ community thinking it was going to be a peaceful retreat, right? NOPE! Little did I know that having my kids stay over occasionally would stir up so much drama. Seriously, it's like every time my grandkids visit, I have to listen to a neverending lecture from the HOA about rules and age restrictions. I mean, come on! What's so wrong about a bit of youthful energy every now and then? It's not like I'm hosting a frat party, geez. These rules are way too strict and honestly kind of ridiculous. I get the whole community vibe thing, but there’s gotta be some flexibility for family visits and stuff. Now I'm caught up in these endless meetings trying to explain common sense to them. How do y'all deal with this kinda craziness? I'm open to any and all suggestions before I pull my hair out. 😂 #HOADisputes #FamilyMatters #LifeInTheHOA