how do divorced dads stay close to their kids post-split? 😕

I recently finalized my divorce, and now I'm facing the toughest part: selling the house. It was our dream home, but it's too big for me now, and I need to downsize. It's tough, especially losing out on that 2.5% mortgage rate. I'm trying to keep my expenses low and focus on what matters—my kids. I want them to attend a great school, but my ex is looking to buy a place in a neighborhood I don’t want to move to, and her budget is higher than mine. Here’s my dilemma: if I move too far, I won’t be as involved in their day-to-day lives, especially if we're in different school districts. My ex says the kids will go to the school in her district, and I worry that if I don’t stay nearby, I’ll miss out on their friends, activities, and those small moments. Am I overthinking this, or is it worth trying to live closer to them, even if it means spending more? #divorceddad #coparenting #familyfirst