why do i still get nervous around my wife after 10 years together?

So, something weird happened this weekend. My wife came to watch me and our kid at our martial arts test. I swear, I felt like a teenager again. My hands were sweaty, my heart was racing, and I just wanted to impress her. We've been married for years, but I still get those butterflies when she's around. Is this normal? I thought the nerves would go away after all this time. Sometimes I feel like I’m still trying to win her over, even though we have a whole life together. It’s kind of sweet, but also a little stressful. I worry she’ll think I’m being silly or not confident enough. Anyone else ever feel this way? How do you chill out and just enjoy these moments without overthinking everything? Would love to hear your advice or similar stories. relationships #marriage #anxiety #selfdoubt #advicewanted #relationships #marriage #anxiety #selfdoubt #advicewanted #RomanticRelationships