is my relationship doomed if we keep fighting about the past?

My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of years, but lately, it feels like we’re stuck in a loop. Every time we argue, old stuff comes up. Things we said or did months ago just keep getting dragged back into the conversation. I want to move forward, but it seems like neither of us can let go. I’ve tried apologizing and making changes, but sometimes it feels like nothing is ever enough. She says she forgives me, but then the same issues pop up again. I’m starting to feel frustrated and a little lost. Has anyone else dealt with this? How do you actually move past old arguments and start fresh? I really care about her, but I’m worried we’re just going in circles. #relationshipadvice #coupleproblems #movingon #communication #RomanticRelationships