You ever have one of those moments where your brain just throws you a curveball? That was me today at our family BBQ. I spotted this ridiculously good-looking guy chatting by the grill, and for a split second, I wondered who he wasāuntil it hit me. Thatās my second cousin. Eleven years younger, and Iāve always seen him as a kid. Never, not once, did I think twice about him. But today? I caught myself thinking, āWow, he grew up.ā Donāt get me wrongāIām happily married and not looking for anything. But is it strange to notice someoneās attractive, even if theyāre family? Maybe itās just human nature, or maybe my brain needs a reality check. Either way, Iām left laughing at myself and wondering if anyone else has ever had a moment like this. š #familydynamics #awkwardmoments #emotionalconfessions #relationshipthoughts #RomanticRelationships