Why Do Job Applications Feel Like Dating?

Ever notice how applying for jobs is weirdly similar to having a crush? You put yourself out there, nervously send that resume (or that text), and then… nothing. Just like when you finally confess your feelings and suddenly they disappear, companies do the same thing. Ghosted again! 😅 Honestly, I’m terrible at reading between the lines—at work and in life. Should I follow up? Did I say something wrong? Or is it just the way things are now? I keep replaying every interaction in my head, wondering if I missed some secret code. Have you ever felt like this? How do you handle the silence—whether it’s from a crush or a recruiter? Any advice for someone who overthinks every little thing? Let’s commiserate! 🥲 #jobsearch #workplaceadvice #careerstruggles #JobCareer