Is the Coquette Aesthetic Just Dress-Up—Or Something Deeper?

Sometimes I wonder if loving the coquette aesthetic is just about playing dress-up, or if it’s a way to reclaim all the girly things we were told to outgrow. Ruffles, bows, and ballet flats make me feel like I’m living in a dreamy, pastel world—far from the days when being a “girly girl” was an insult. But with all the controversy and history behind the trend, is it really empowering, or are we just trading one set of rules for another? Would you rock the coquette look for yourself, or does it feel too performative? #CoquetteAesthetic #FashionDebate #TikTokTrends #GirlyStyle #Fashion