When Did I Become the Needy One in My Marriage?

You know, I always thought I was a good wife. Ten years together, eight married, three beautiful kids, and hoping for a fourth. My husband is the kind of man you read about in stories—always giving, always patient. But last week, after his emergency surgery, as he held me close, I broke down. It hit me: every time life knocked him down—losing his job, his mom passing, my harsh words during pregnancy—I made it about me. He was the one hurting, yet he was always the one comforting me. How did I miss that? How do I start being the partner he deserves without making it all about my guilt? I’m scared I’ll never be able to make it right, but I want to try. Have you ever realized you were the problem only after it was almost too late? 😔💔 MarriageStruggles #EmotionalSupport #RelationshipGrowth #Regret #PersonalReflection #MarriageStruggles #EmotionalSupport #RelationshipGrowth #Regret #PersonalReflection #RomanticRelationships