Loaned $65k to In-Laws, Now I'm the Villain?! 😡💸

Six years ago, my wife begged me to help her parents—they were about to lose their home because her dad hadn’t paid taxes in years. Against my gut feeling, I loaned them $65,000, asking only that they pay me back within a year. Fast forward to today: not a cent repaid. They’ve blown casino winnings and inheritance on themselves, while I’m left worrying about our kids’ college funds. Every time I bring it up, my wife gets furious and tells me to drop it. To make things worse, her dad chain-smokes around my kids, insults them, and treats me like a doormat. When I finally snapped and demanded my money back, everyone acted like I was the problem! Now the house is silent, and I’m left wondering—am I wrong for finally standing up for myself? What would you do if you were in my shoes? 🤯💔 #FamilyDrama #MoneyMatters #ToxicInLaws #FinancialStress #RomanticRelationships