23 Years of Marriage, 24 Years of Being Invisible—Is It All My Fault? 😤🤦‍♂️

After 23 years of marriage, I feel like a ghost in my own home. Last year, I found out my wife was having a long-distance affair while we barely spoke. I lost my job, my mind, and almost my life. Now, I’m clawing my way back for our two boys, trying to prove that even the darkest times can be survived. But she seems untouched—maybe even happier. I do everything: make lunches, work late, keep the house running. Yet, I’m called a bad father, told I’m a failure, and watched her move on without a second thought. Last night, I snapped and sent her a message pouring out my pain. Now I wonder—am I the villain here? Or just a man desperate for someone to care? Honestly, what would you do if you were me? How do you keep going when you feel invisible? 😔😡 #MarriageStruggles #ParentingPain #FeelingInvisible #FamilyDrama #RomanticRelationships