When Mom’s Love Feels Like a One-Way Street 🤔

Ever feel like your mom’s world just revolves around her, no matter what you do? Growing up in a small town, I always thought moms were supposed to be selfless, but mine seemed to have her own agenda. If I needed new shoes for school, she’d say no, but then she’d show up with a new handbag for herself. I used to wonder if I was being selfish for wanting more attention, but it just felt so one-sided. The hardest part was when she’d guilt-trip me for wanting to go to college out of state. She’d say things like, “I guess you don’t care if I’m lonely.” It made me question my own needs and dreams. Sometimes, I’d try to talk to her about how I felt, but she’d just brush it off or turn the conversation back to herself. I started doubting my own worth, thinking maybe I was the problem. Have you ever felt like your mom just doesn’t see you? Like no matter what you do, it’s never enough? I’m sharing this because I know I’m not alone. If you’ve been through something similar, I’d love to hear your story. Maybe together, we can figure out how to heal and move forward. 💬 #FamilyStruggles #SelfishParent #MotherChildBond #EmotionalHealth #FamilyRelationships