My husband is the oldest, and ever since his dad left, his mom has leaned on him for everything. I get itāheās a good son. But sometimes, I feel like sheās testing just how far she can push him. The latest? She expects him to cough up $100 for his 17-year-old sisterās new iPhone, just because āthatās what big brothers do.ā Meanwhile, weāre drowning in bills, saving every penny for a new car, and still paying off our sonās hospital stay. His mom didnāt even askāshe just told him heād pay her back. Am I crazy for thinking this is out of line? I donāt want to make my husband choose sides, but Iām at my witās end. How would you handle this? Is it wrong to finally say no? š©šø #FamilyFinances #InLawDrama #MoneyMatters #MarriageConflicts #RomanticRelationships