This Friendship Feels Like Chasing a Ghost 👻

Ever tried making plans with someone who’s always MIA? I’ve been there. I kept messaging this girl from my book club, thinking we’d click outside of meetings. Every time I suggested coffee, she’d reply, “Sounds fun!”—then vanish like Houdini. At first, I wondered if I was too pushy or just plain boring. But here’s the twist: it wasn’t about me. People have their own stuff, and sometimes, you’re just not their flavor of tea. I had to stop obsessively checking if she’d liked my posts (spoiler: she hadn’t) and start focusing on friends who actually cared. Letting go stung, but it made space for real connections. If you’re stuck in a one-sided friendship, let yourself feel it, then move on. There are better people out there, trust me. 😅✌️ #FriendshipStruggles #LettingGo #RealConnections