My mother always blames us without knowing the truth

My living room turned into a courtroom last night. My mom, who watches our daughter, suddenly accused my husband of mishandling our money—just because he grew up poor and she thinks he’s hiding something. She’s convinced he’s secretly spending, even though he’s the one who set up our joint account and insists on transparency! The kicker? She’s the one who always gives our daughter treats and then blames us for not budgeting right. I’m torn between my mom’s wild suspicions and my husband’s hurt. How do I trust my mom with our finances—or our child—after this? How do I defend my husband when he’s already carrying so much baggage? If you were in my shoes, how would you handle this mess? 😤💸🤯 #FamilyFinance #TrustCrisis #ParentingDrama #MoneyMatters #RomanticRelationships