My husband only cares about me making more money and doesn't care about my stress

We just moved into this massive house, and suddenly every penny matters. I’m torn between two jobs—one pays more but would eat me alive, the other pays less but lets me breathe. I told my husband I wanted the less stressful one, and he shot me down, saying we couldn’t afford it. Last night, he acts like he never said that and even wonders why I haven’t applied! When I remind him, he gets defensive and swears he’d never stop me from doing what I want. This isn’t a one-off—he forgets things with the kids, with our friends, and always denies it. Am I losing my mind? Is he gaslighting me, or does he really just forget everything? I’m so frustrated and honestly starting to doubt myself. What would you do if you were in my shoes? 😤🤯 #MarriageConflicts #FinancialStress #Gaslighting #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships