Is Wanting My Own Money Selfish? Anyway My Family Thinks So!

So here’s my life: I’m 20, stuck in a cramped apartment in Queens with my parents and little sister. My dad’s paycheck? Gone before it hits the bank—straight to debt counseling. My mom? Out of work. I’m the only one hustling, paying for groceries, rent, wifi, and even dog food for our four furballs. Last weekend, I finally took a break and crashed at my boyfriend’s place. He bought me pizza—my first real treat in months. When my mom found out, she lost it. She called me selfish and useless, even though I’m the one keeping the lights on at home! I just want to save a little for myself, but every time I try, I’m guilt-tripped for not giving more. Am I really the villain here for wanting a life of my own? How do I set boundaries without being branded the family traitor? Seriously, what would you do if you were me? 😤🍕💸 #FamilyFinance #SettingBoundaries #FinancialStruggles #YoungAdultLife #RomanticRelationships