If my brother makes a mistake, I will also be punished 🚨🙄

Ever felt like your own family just doesn't trust you, even when you've done everything right? That's me right now. My younger brother John got caught smoking at his high school, and suddenly my parents are on a warpath. Instead of just dealing with him, they want to drug test me too—just to be "fair." Never mind that I'm 23, living in another state for grad school, and cigarette has never messed up my life. My brother even ratted me out to make himself look better! Now my parents are threatening to take my car if I test positive, even though I barely smoke and only when I'm alone or with friends. I get wanting to keep us safe, but this feels like a total invasion of privacy. I'm angry, confused, and honestly, pretty hurt. How do I talk to my parents about respecting my boundaries without blowing up our relationship? And how do I deal with my brother after this betrayal? Seriously, what would you do if you were in my shoes? 😤🚗🤦‍♀️ #FamilyDrama #TrustIssues #PrivacyMatters #SiblingProblems #RomanticRelationships