At the engagement ceremony, his colleague looked more like his fiancée😱🤦‍♀️

A few months ago, my fiancé (43M) and I (36F) celebrated our engagement with a big party in downtown Chicago. Everything was perfect—until one of his female friends (40sF), who he works with, started acting way too close for comfort. She clung to his arm, whispered in his ear, and basically ignored me the whole night. I felt invisible at my own party! This wasn’t the first red flag. Two years ago, he told me he rubbed her feet after a night out. I was furious and told him it felt like cheating. He apologized, but the memory still stings. Now, seeing her all over him again, I’m left feeling paranoid and angry. He says he finds her behavior weird too, but I don’t know how to set boundaries without sounding crazy or controlling. Honestly, I’m at my wit’s end. How do you rebuild trust when it feels like your partner’s boundaries are just... missing? Am I overreacting, or is this as bizarre as it feels? Please, tell me I’m not alone in this! 😤🤯😬 #RelationshipTrust #Boundaries #EngagementDrama #TrustIssues #RomanticRelationships