My Wife’s Hair Costs More Than Our Groceries?!

Last night, in our tiny kitchen, I stared at our bank app and felt my blood pressure spike. We’ve got $180 to last until next payday—barely enough for diapers, let alone anything fun. My wife just dropped $320 on her hair, barely six weeks after a $380 salon visit. Meanwhile, our bills, car loan, and mortgage are eating us alive, and baby #2 is due in nine weeks. We’ve fought about money for years. She admits she doesn’t get finances—maybe it’s her ADHD and OCD—but how many times do I have to explain we’re drowning? I’m exhausted, angry, and honestly, thinking about splitting our finances. What do I do when talking just isn’t working? Is there a way to make her see the reality before we go under? Help me out, because I’m out of ideas. 😩💸🤦‍♂️ #MarriageStruggles #FinancialStress #RelationshipAdvice #FamilyFinance #RomanticRelationships