When Your Mom’s Love Feels Like a Competition 🎭

Ever felt like your mom was your biggest critic instead of your biggest fan? Growing up in a small town, I was always compared to the neighbor’s daughter—never quite smart enough, pretty enough, or successful enough. My mom would shower me with backhanded compliments, reminding me that my achievements were only possible because of her. I learned to walk on eggshells, afraid to show emotion or set boundaries. If I tried to stand up for myself, she’d twist my words, making me question my own reality. The constant pressure to be perfect left me doubting my worth and terrified of disappointing her. Sometimes, I wonder if anyone else feels this way—trapped between love and resentment, craving approval but never feeling good enough. Have you ever struggled with a parent who puts their needs above yours? Let’s talk about it. Your story matters, too. 💬 #FamilyDynamics #NarcissisticMothers #HealingJourney #ShareYourStory #FamilyRelationships