I don't want to spend all my money to attend my friend's fake wedding. Is that wrong? 💸🤦‍♀️

I just told my best friend of 20 years that I’m not going to her wedding, and now I’m questioning everything. She’s marrying a guy who’s clearly not thrilled about her open relationship (which she started without telling him, by the way), and she’s admitted she’s not even excited about the wedding. Meanwhile, I’m broke, and the destination wedding costs more than my rent. She offered to pay, but honestly, how do I celebrate a marriage she doesn’t even want? Now she’s furious, saying I’m not there for her. But am I supposed to ignore my own financial mess and her obvious doubts just to show up? Or is it okay to stand my ground and hope she understands? Someone, please tell me how to untangle this emotional and financial mess! 😩💔 #FriendshipDrama #FinancialStress #RelationshipConflicts #WeddingWoes #RomanticRelationships