The money is earned by both of us, but my husband is always on guard against me 😤

Last night, I confronted my husband about our finances—again. I asked him how much money he had left, and he just said, "enough." When I pressed for details, he got defensive and refused to show me his bank statement. He even told me to back off, which is so unlike him. I told him he needs to start paying half the bills by next month. He completely shut down, wouldn't even look at me, and now he's sulking in the basement like a hermit. Meanwhile, I'm supposed to just keep pretending everything's fine? I'm angry, confused, and honestly starting to think about divorce. How do I get through to him? Has anyone else dealt with this level of financial secrecy and emotional withdrawal? Help! 😩💸 #MarriageProblems #FinancialConflict #RelationshipAdvice #RomanticRelationships