It’s been over a year since my husband and I tied the knot, and I’m STILL not on the house deed. We bought this place together in Chicago right before our wedding—his grandma even gifted us $50,000 for the down payment, which went into our joint account. Yet, here I am, contributing to the mortgage every month, but legally, it’s like I’m just a guest in my own home! I’ve asked him more than once to add me, and every time, he says he’ll handle it, but nothing ever happens. Is it just forgetfulness, or is there something deeper? His dad’s old-school advice about keeping things separate keeps echoing in my head. I’m angry, confused, and honestly starting to feel like I’m being taken for granted. How do I bring this up again without starting World War III? Has anyone else dealt with this kind of financial power struggle in their marriage? I need some real talk and advice! 😩💸 #MarriageMoneyMatters #FinancialFairness #RelationshipStruggles #RomanticRelationships