my cactus patch: old wisdom meets new garden trends

When I look at my little cactus patch, I’m reminded of my grandmother’s garden back in Arizona. She always said, "Let the land choose what thrives." I remember her hands, weathered and gentle, planting prickly pears under the blazing sun. Today, my own patch is a blend of her old ways and some of the new tricks I’ve picked up from younger neighbors—like using drip irrigation and decorative gravel. But here’s the thing: my community has mixed feelings. Some folks say these spiky beauties are too wild, not as pretty as the lush lawns we see in glossy magazines. Others argue that cacti are the future—drought-resistant, low-maintenance, and perfect for our increasingly dry summers. I’ve even had a neighbor complain that my patch looks "unfriendly" compared to his manicured roses. Yet, every time I see a hummingbird darting between the blooms, I feel a deep connection to both the past and the present. Is it better to honor tradition or embrace change? Should we stick to what our parents taught us, or adapt to the climate and community rules of today? I’d love to hear your stories—have you faced similar choices in your own gardens? #cactusgarden #familytradition #gardeningdebate #Gardening