16 Years Together: Love, Trust, and Endless Frustration 😤🤦‍♀️

I've been with my boyfriend since high school—16 years! We moved to a cozy condo in Chicago, thinking it was a fresh start. Instead, I found myself paying most of the bills, cleaning up after him, and feeling more like a roommate than a partner. He barely helps unless I threaten to leave, and when I’m exhausted from work, he tries to initiate sex while I’m asleep. I’m angry, confused, and honestly, just so tired. He does drive me to appointments (I can’t drive), and we share some laughs, but is that enough? I want a real partnership, not to feel used. Am I wrong for wanting more? How do you rebuild trust and respect when it feels so one-sided? Please, tell me what you’d do if you were in my shoes. 😩🤷‍♀️💔 #RelationshipStruggles #TrustIssues #EmotionalExhaustion #RomanticRelationships