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My 8-Year Relationship Dilemma πŸ˜…πŸš²

Eight years together, and suddenly, it feels like I'm living someone else's life. My girlfriend and I, both 21, have been inseparable since we were kids. But ever since we moved in together, she's been trying to mold me into her 'ideal man.' She doesn't let me hang out with my old friendsβ€”guys I've known for over a decade. She even banned my BMX bike, calling it childish and embarrassing. Honestly, I'm frustrated and confused. Is it normal for love to mean giving up everything that makes you, well, you? I feel trapped, like I can't even breathe without her approval. If I leave, am I the villain? Or am I just standing up for myself? Have you ever felt this way? How do you rebuild trust and freedom in a relationship that's starting to feel like a prison? Help me out, I need some real advice! πŸ˜©πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈπŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ #RelationshipStruggles #TrustIssues #PersonalFreedom #RomanticRelationships

2025-05-30
Caroline
what makes it funny is if you change and become everything she wants she will dump you because you've changed. move out and just go back to dating her.
05-30
Seiad Valley, CA
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