FunkyPhoenixLove fades away, it doesn't grow stronger. My boyfriend is a good example.🎢🤦♀️
I never thought I'd be the one snooping through my partner's phone, but here I am. Two years in, and what started as a whirlwind romance with keys exchanged and promises whispered, has turned into endless questioning. I wanted a baby—suddenly, desperately. He said yes, then maybe, then not now, then maybe never. Every time I brought it up, the story changed. Was he lying to me? Or just to himself? I feel betrayed, like I was led on with talk of baby names and new homes. Now, I can't help but wonder: is he hiding something else? Why do I feel like I have to check his messages, his emails, his everything? I hate this version of myself. How do couples rebuild trust after it’s been chipped away, piece by piece? How do I stop wanting what he won’t give? Please, tell me I’m not alone in this mess. 😩🤷♀️🥲 #RelationshipStruggles #TrustIssues #WantingABaby #RomanticRelationships
2025-06-03
Izzie
Well… unfortunately you’re missing the lesson and that’s what’s leading you to fail.That boyfriend? He’s telling you he isn’t the one.But you're not listening.Let God guide you not your feelings not your fears not your flesh…When you let God lead you won’t just end up with someone He chooses but created for you…There’s a difference between being picked by preference and being purposed by design.just let it go Stop settling.give God the pen and let him write this chapter.🙏🏼
06-03
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Seymore Turner
Passionate love is hormone driven. I have been married for 45 years. I love and appreciate my wife now more than ever before. The 22 year old passion is obviously less now.
06-03
Valparaiso, IN
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Dawn Jeffery
If you don’t want the same things, then it’s time to move on
06-03
Riverside, CA
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Fartstarter
You are only the girlfriend. Create your own life seperate from him. Focus on yourself and stop obsessing over him. Go out and have fun alone. Maybe will meet someone new. No man is worth the head space.
06-04
Philadelphia, PA
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Cheetara_Thundercat
This person is going through a crisis. You don't need a baby, you need to talk to a therapist.
06-03
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djwyrm
wait for stability both financially, emotionally, and a husband. sounds like the latter 2 are lacking right now.
06-04
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USA10
It seems like you will have to leave or accept him for the way he is.
06-03
Burbank, CA
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Alex Madl
Marriage THEN baby. Any other way leads to a single parent home.
06-03
Webb City, MO
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