She Ghosted Me—But Our Money Fights Still Haunt Me 😂

I ran into my ex at a friend's housewarming, and let me tell you, it was like getting hit by a financial audit out of nowhere. We spent two years together, and half of that time was arguing about who should handle our money. She always wanted to split everything 50/50, but then questioned my spending on things like sneakers, while her online shopping habit was apparently 'self-care.' After she ghosted me, I found out she’d been using our shared credit card for stuff she never told me about. When I confronted her, she just shrugged and said she needed her independence. Now she says she was just tired of the drama. But is it really drama if you’re just asking for honesty? How do you even trust someone with your finances after this? Has anyone else been blindsided by a partner’s spending habits? 😤💸 #RelationshipDrama #MoneyMatters #TrustIssues #RomanticRelationships