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He Showed Up in Pajamas. Am I the Villain?

Okay, tell me if I’m losing it. I (31M) matched with this girl who kept saying she wanted something real, like, future-planning serious. She was sweet, actually planned the date, even offered to pick me up. I was hyped. Spent way too long picking out a shirt, even ironed it (which, for me, is wild). I open my door and… she’s in sweats and a baggy tee. Like, actual pajamas. I’m standing there in jeans and a button-down, feeling like an idiot. I tried to brush it off but honestly, it stung. First date and you couldn’t even try? I brought it up (gently!) and she called me shallow and told me to get over myself. Am I actually the problem here? Or is it fair to want someone to put in a little effort? If you can sleep in it, should you really be wearing it to a first date? Someone please tell me I’m not insane. #NoFilter #DatingDisasters #AdultingFail #NoFilter #DatingDisasters #AdultingFail #RomanticRelationships

2025-06-04
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