So here I am, 38, divorced (thanks to my ex's cheating ways), and suddenly falling for Jeanβa guy who's 11 years younger than me. We met in a cozy Seattle bar, and I swear, the chemistry was instant. He makes me feel alive, seen, and honestly, a little scared. But here's the thing: after what happened with my ex, I can't help but question everything. I find myself wanting to check Jean's phone, wondering if he's texting someone else, or if he's just too good to be true. Sometimes, I catch him glancing at his phone and my mind spirals. I hate feeling this way! We've talked about trust, but I still feel insecure. Is it the age gap? My past? Or am I just overthinking? Have you ever felt like this? How do you stop yourself from crossing the line and snooping? Please, tell me I'm not alone in this mess! π©ππ€·ββοΈ #TrustIssues #DatingYounger #RelationshipStruggles #RomanticRelationships