When Paternity Leave Becomes Dad’s Solo Retreat: Navigating Expectations

My husband recently shared that he wants to use his paternity leave as a chance for some personal reset time—lots of golf, quiet mornings, and solo outings. At first, I was surprised. I always pictured paternity leave as a time for us to bond as a new family, share sleepless nights, and support each other through those first chaotic weeks. Now, I’m left wondering: Is it selfish to crave that kind of break, or is it a healthy way to recharge before diving into parenthood? I’d love to hear from others who’ve navigated similar feelings or expectations. How did you find balance? Let’s talk about it in the comments below! #FamilyDynamics #ParentingJourney #PaternityLeave #Parenting