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My girlfriend is pregnant, but I haven't graduated yet, and our life goals have become different🤯🤦‍♂️

My girlfriend (35F) and I (26M) have been together for 8 months, and now she’s pregnant. The age gap didn’t bother us at first, but now every conversation feels like a battle. She wants the baby—her friends and family are all in. Me? I’m not ready, emotionally or financially. I wanted to finish my Masters, get a remote job, and THEN start a family. Now, we’re arguing constantly. I can’t help but wonder: does she trust me to be there, or is she just pushing her own timeline? I even caught myself wanting to check her phone—something I swore I’d never do. She says we should decide together, but it feels like my opinion only counts if I agree with her. I’m angry, confused, and honestly, a little scared. Have you ever felt like your partner’s private space is suddenly off-limits, but you’re dying to know what’s really going on? How do you rebuild trust when everything feels so shaky? Please, tell me I’m not alone in this mess. 😵‍💔🤷‍♂️ #TrustIssues #RelationshipStruggles #PregnancyDrama #RomanticRelationships

2025-06-06
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