Questions for Parents of Teen Girls Who Struggle With Kindness

As a mom in my mid-30s with a 6-year-old daughter and a 9-year-old son, I know we’re still a few years away from the rollercoaster of the teen stage. But lately, I’ve been reflecting on my own high school days. I wasn’t exactly in the popular crowd, but I floated between different friend groups and saw firsthand how some girls could be really unkind—sometimes just a little, sometimes a lot. So I’m genuinely curious: If you’re a parent of a teen girl who sometimes acts mean (not outright bullying, but you know the type), did you see any signs when she was younger? Were you like that as a teen? Do you think it’s just a phase, and do you talk to her about it? No judgment at all—just trying to understand. I’d love to hear your stories and thoughts in the comments! #ParentingTeens #RaisingGirls #FamilyConversations #Parenting