Is It Love or Just Loneliness? My Heart’s Confused 🤔

Lately, I keep asking myself if I’m really in love with my partner, or if I just love having someone around. We’ve been together for a year and a half, and he’s honestly a wonderful guy. We laugh, we talk, and I genuinely enjoy his company. But when it comes to romance, something’s missing. There’s no spark, and intimacy feels more like a routine than a passion. I worry that ending things would leave me completely alone—I don’t have close friends to confide in, and the thought of losing him scares me. Is it selfish to stay just because I’m afraid of being lonely? Sometimes I feel like we’re just best friends sharing a house, not lovers. I’m stuck between not wanting to hurt him and not wanting to be alone myself. Have you ever felt this way? I’d love to hear your stories, because right now, I really need someone to talk to. 🥺 #relationshipstruggles #loneliness #familydynamics #FamilyRelationships