Six years together, a beautiful four-month-old son, and suddenly my partner drops the bomb: he still dreams of joining the army. I always thought he was content with our quiet life in the suburbs, but now I realize heβs been hiding his true feelings. The thought of moving from place to place, living on a military base, and raising our son without his dad around for months terrifies me. I crave stability, not the uncertainty of military life. But how can I ask him to give up on something heβs so passionate about? I love him too much to be the reason heβs unhappy, but I also canβt imagine sacrificing my own happiness and peace of mind. Am I really stuck between letting him go or giving up my own dreams? Has anyone else faced this kind of crossroads? I feel so lost and could really use some advice from people who understand. π¬ #FamilyDilemmas #RelationshipStruggles #MilitaryLife #FamilyRelationships