When Climbing the Ladder Feels Like Sinking: My Unemployment Dilemma in NYC

Ever felt like you’re supposed to have it all figured out, but you’re just stuck? That’s me right now. I landed a full-time job in New York, but my previous employer never gave us access to our pay stubs unless we asked—so now, trying to prove my income for unemployment is a nightmare. 😓 I didn’t leave that job on the best terms, so reaching out isn’t an option. All I have are my bank statements showing direct deposits, and I’m honestly not sure if that’s enough. The worst part? If I can’t sort this out, my benefit rate stays super low, even though I worked way more hours in my alternate base period. I’m feeling lost and honestly a bit embarrassed to admit I don’t know what to do next. Has anyone else been through this? Any advice would mean the world to me right now. 🙏 #WorkplaceConfusion #LeadershipStruggles #NYCWorkLife #JobCareer