When It’s Not the Child: Rethinking Where Challenges Begin

So often, we’re quick to point fingers at our kids when things go wrong—tantrums, homework battles, or messy rooms. But lately, I’ve been reflecting on how much of these struggles actually start with us as parents. I remember a time when my son refused to do his chores, and I immediately assumed he was just being stubborn. Later, I realized I hadn’t explained why the chores mattered or even modeled how to do them. It wasn’t about him being difficult; it was about me needing to communicate better. Sometimes, the change really does begin with us. Have you ever realized you might be part of the problem? Let’s talk about it in the comments! #ParentingReflection #FamilyGrowth #MindfulParenting #Parenting