After 3.5 years together, I thought my boyfriend and I were finally building our future. My parents keep asking when weβll settle down, and honestly, Iβm ready. But when I brought up marriage, he just shrugged and said, βYou should find a good guy to marry.β Are you kidding me? That stung. He says he loves me, but his career always comes firstβheβs even planning to move abroad! Am I supposed to just wait around, hoping Iβll matter someday? Now, I find myself wanting to check his phone, doubting his words, and feeling this ugly mix of anger, confusion, and betrayal. Is this normal? Or am I just losing it? If you were me, would you wait for him to finally choose you, or would you walk away? Please, spill your honest adviceβIβm desperate for some real talk! π€ππ€·ββοΈ #RelationshipDilemma #TrustIssues #LoveVsCareer #RomanticRelationships