My Partner’s Son Is Draining Our Wallet—And My Patience! 😩💸

Living in a cozy lakeside town in Michigan, I thought blending our families would be a breeze. But lately, my partner’s endless spending on his teenage son from his previous marriage is driving a wedge between us. Every weekend, it’s something new—expensive headphones, designer sneakers, or the latest gaming console—while our own plans and needs get pushed to the back burner. His ex never helps out, and I feel like I’m just watching our savings vanish. I’ve tried to talk to him about how overwhelmed and invisible I feel, but he just shrugs it off, leaving me more frustrated and alone. I adore his son, but is it selfish to want some balance and to feel like a priority too? Has anyone else felt like the forgotten partner in their own home? Please share your stories and advice—I could really use a friend right now. 💬🫶 #BlendedFamily #StepParentStruggles #FamilyFinance #FamilyRelationships