My 14-Year-Old Wants to Leave Me for Grandparents 💔😭

I'm completely heartbroken and don't know what to do anymore 😢 My teenage daughter wants to move in with my parents permanently, and honestly, I feel like such a failure as a mom. When I had her at 20, I lived with my parents in Chicago and they basically took over raising her while I worked. Big mistake! Now after 10 years with my amazing partner, my parents still refuse to even meet him and have completely poisoned my daughter against him 😡 She tells him "you're not my dad" and "you don't belong in this family" - those are my mom's exact words coming out of her mouth! My 6-year-old is now copying everything she says and does. I'm torn between my family and the man I love. My parents are practically hermits now, and I have to split holidays between them. Should I let her go live with them? Is our relationship beyond repair? 💔 Has anyone else been through something like this? I really need someone to tell me I'm not going crazy here 😭 #familyconflict #parentingstruggles #grandparents #FamilyRelationships