My Boyfriend Won't Move In After 18 Months - Am I Being Played? 😢💔

I'm 43, single mom to my 10-year-old, barely making ends meet on my admin job. I rent a 2-bedroom from my mom for $650/month, and honestly, I need government assistance to cover it. 😔 Eighteen months ago, I met this amazing guy (52) who constantly talks about us living together. But here's the kicker - he won't move in because I don't have a spare room for his 23-year-old son who visits maybe three times a year! 🙄 I've offered everything - getting a 3-bedroom together, him moving into my place for cheaper rent. But he keeps making excuses and gets defensive when I bring it up. I'm starting to wonder if he actually wants a future with me or just likes the idea of it. Has anyone else dealt with a partner who talks the talk but won't walk the walk? I'm feeling so confused and hurt right now. 💭 #relationshipadvice #singleparent #housingstruggles #FamilyRelationships