Sometimes, even after seven years together, I feel like Iām still living in the shadow of his first love. Sheās always thereāliking his posts on LinkedIn, sending him emails, just hovering in the background. Itās like sheās waiting for her chance, and honestly, it makes me feel like Iāll never measure up. Weāve been through so much togetherāsurgeries, losing my mom, building a life. But when I see her name pop up, I start doubting myself. I ask him if he still loves her, and I know it sounds insecure, but I canāt help it. I wish I could just not care, but sometimes it feels impossible. Does anyone else struggle with their partnerās past relationships? How do you stop comparing yourself and start feeling secure again? Iād love to hear your stories and advice. Letās help each other out! š«¶ #relationshipstruggles #insecurity #movingon #FamilyRelationships